One character flaw I’ve always struggled with is being overly defensive of my work and ideas. It’s not something I’m going to apologize for because it’s who I am and only human nature, but it is a behavior I can keep in check for my own benefit. Passion and confidence are great, but not when they become an obstacle.

See, sometimes when we believe in an idea so hard or have invested so much in a project, any criticism comes across as blasphemy. How fucking dare someone trash me when they haven’t done anything? They have no idea what they’re talking about! I know that’s been my reaction plenty of times, even if I kept the words to myself. But the problem from a creative standpoint, besides not being open-minded enough to make improvements is that being angry and defensive uses up your creative energy and resources. All that time spent defending your work and trying to knock down your perceived enemies takes away from time spent bettering yourself or being more prolific. At the very least, it’s taxing because you’ll need to calm down and refocus.
In fact, in creative work you might be better off committing a cardinal sin of team sports – a whole lot of offense and limited defense. Because unlike the playing field there aren’t that many enemies and you just might be the biggest one. You are better off producing more than letting hubris interfere because you’ll always be accomplishing more than your loudest critics.
That’s not to say you should ignore all criticism. Like I mentioned in a previous piece, constructive criticism is awesome and something you should be grateful to receive. But take criticisms as suggestions. If you’re honest with yourself you’ll know when you should consider a change and when something is absolute horseshit that defeats the purpose of what you’re trying to do. I’m just saying don’t let the noise bother you so much because it’ll ruin the focus and energy you need to be creative. I know I haven’t reached the point where I’m ready to throw away good opportunities. Have you?
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